Monday, March 11, 2013

Wedding Jitters Part 1



Ok, so this is how it feels like when you're getting married.

  1. You hardly have time for yourself. 24 hours are simply not enough. There are lots of things to do, loads more to see and even gazillions more to think. After all, regardless of how simple your wedding will turn out to be, you still want it to be as perfect as it can ever be. It is once-in-a-lifetime event kot! What do you expect, right?
  2. Everything you see, reminds you of your wedding. For instance, 'eh, cantiklah ni. Boleh buat doorgifts ni.'. Even when you are too drown in your own thoughts to notice the things, there will always be someone else who will do the job for you. Best friends, MOM and sisters; they are very well-trained in this field. 
  3. Maciks used to bomb me with their favourite question which was, 'Bila nak kawen?'. But now that they know that I am getting hitched, they kinda alter their questions a bit and try to make it sounds creative. They are feeding me with, 'So, how did you meet him?', 'How old is he?', and some of them even ask me to show them his pictures, which I turned down (muahahaha, I am keeping him as my ultimate surprise) nicely.
  4. The students start to bombard me with 'Teacher, when are you getting married?'. Yes, so much for being students in this modern age. They don't feel scared (or intimidated as I used to feel) to ask teachers such questions. I, on the other hand, try to act cool and professional. So, I normally response their questions with either a blank stare or just a plain heartless smile. (I just realized that I wasn't acting cool, I was acting COLD instead! LOL).
  5. There are GAZILLIONS of arguments taking place. You'll be surprised to know that you and your fiance can argue over little tiny petty trivial things. Wait! There is no such little tiny petty trivial things. Everything is huge and enormous and plays a gigantic role in planning a wedding. Hence explains the arguments. 
  6. You are (very) prone to feel tired and can easily lose your temper, which is actually resulted from point number 1, and can lead to point number 5. 
  7. You feel like changing your colour scheme every time you lay your eyes on anything that is bridal-associated. Yes, I still think of that although we had passed that most emotional-wrecking-and-eyes-bulging phase. 
  8. I'm still in disbelief. I can't believe that I am finally getting married. And I am getting married to my bestest (yes, that word is grammatically wrong, I was just trying to emphasize how awesome he is) friend of all. 
  9. As we progress with our checklist, we come to realize that the excitement is getting harder to contain.
...... to be continued.



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