Saturday, April 4, 2009

Sittingday

It's Saturday.

But unsurprisingly, I don't feel as though I am in Saturday. Lucky me! =S

I need a break but I know I am so not getting any. Not at the nearest time. *sigh* I am so lucky, ain't I?

Anyway, I still have LOADS of things to be worked on. 24 hours perday are simply not enough. Wish time freezing really exist. <---I'm going out of my mind. Again.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

what GUYS need to understand about girls

This is basically the reply to what girls need to understand about guys. This piece was posted at the TornCity forum as well. And yes, u got it right. The poster is a girl. xD

WHAT GUYS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GIRLS
(jot down some note guys!!)

1. Don't ever lie to us; we always find out. (CARDINAL RULE)

2. Don't say you understand when you don't.

3. Girls are petty; get over it. And we like to start fights.

4. You don't have PMS, so don't act like you know what it's like. Don't try to understand...believe me you never will.

5. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.

6. We don't like it when you act like Mr. Big.

7. A system in your car only impresses your homeboys.

8. It's good to be sensitive sometimes.

9. If you did something wrong or even if you didn't, apologize.

10. Be spontaneous; dinner and a movie won't always cut it, but it is extremely sweet.

11. We are self-conscious by nature; we can't help it.

12. We are Drama queens; never forget that.

13. Fashion police do exist.

14. We absolutely DO NOT care about monster trucks, car systems, paintball, or anything else you and your friends talk about.

15. Hugs and kisses must be given at all times.

16. We don't shave our legs everyday: get over it.

17. Don't make bets about us; we always find out; you may think we don't know, but WE DO!

18. Shave! No matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we hate it. We like clean-cut men.

19. Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emit other strange gases from your body, it is not.

20. Don't compare us to Pamela Anderson; parts of her are fake, just remember that. (Remember: you have a better shot at us than you ever will have with her.)

21. It is not cool to shoot snot rockets.

22. We are beautiful at all times.

23. We will always think we are fat, so humor us and tell us we aren't.

24. You can shoot hoops, score a goal, knock down big fat guys, and hit a little baseball with a stick, so why can't you aim in the toilet and not on it.

25. Most importantly: we are always right in one way or another so don't forget that!


See, we are not that hard to understand as u claim us as. It's just the matter of u want to understand us or not.

Sunday, March 29, 2009

I Need This.

Copied and pasted from an online forum. A very nice thought, indeed.Guys, every girl is different, and we all want different things. There's no magical answer that's going to tell you exactly how to treat your girl. However, there's a couple guidelines that you should probly follow to figure out what it is your girl needs from you.

1. Protection: Girls like to be protected by guys. It's in our instincts to go for a man who we think will be able to provide for us and look after us. HOWEVER, this does not mean we want someone who think's we're a piece of glass who need to be protected from everything, including ourselves. You have to give us enough space to be ourselves, but genereally listen you your girl and try to figure out what she needs. Ask yourself, "Does she look like she wants me to protect her, or can she handle this on her own?" Some girls are independent and can take care of themselves most of the time. This doesn't mean that they don't need you, it just means they don't want to feel weak or "girly" and needy. They still need your support. Vice versa, some girls like to be taken care of 24/7. I'm sure this would get frustrating for some guys, because those girls have been described as being needy. If your girl needs you to protect her and take care of her all the time, and you get annoyed by that, try to give her a break and realize that that's just the way she is, and if you really love her then you will be who she needs you to be. If you can't do that, maybe you're not the right guy for her.

2. Romance: Again, every girl has her own personal taste in this category. Some things you might think are romantic she wouldn't consider to be, and sometimes the things she wants you to do in the way of romance you see as unneccesary and soppy. Also, some girls don't need a lot of romance, some do. Its unique to everyone. The basic idea, again, is to listen to her and pay attention, especially in the early stages of your relationship. Lots of times, girls will try to hint to guys that they like/ are in a relationship with the things that they feel would be romantic, or things that they would want you to do for them. If you're paying attention, you might want to think about doing one or two of them for her. Not only will it be the kind of romance she wants, but you also prove that you pay attention and listen to her. Girls don't want to have to tell you what they want. They want you to figure it out on your own, we see it as a test of your love and as more romantic if you can do it by yourself. Do your best as far as this one goes, guys, I know its a tough one.

Fun: THE KEY TO GIRLS IS FUN!! Most girls don't want to have a relationship where you constantly talk about your love and devotion and you go out to fancy restaurants all the time and everything whenever you're together is about love and stuff. Take the time to relax and have fun once in a while, and she'll love you for it. When guys start going down the "Serious" road too early, girls have a tendency to think that they're no fun and/or get scared by the level of deepness thats going on. That kind of stuff is important, but taking the time to just have a blast can strengthen your relationship so much. it allows you to have time to build the core friendship that should be the building block of your love.

Compliments: Girls like to be complimented, but ONLY IF YOU MEAN IT!! Girls have this amazing ability to see through false compliments and ones that are made just because you think you should say them. Doing this is a guaruntee to making her think you're just complimenting her to make conversation, and she's not gonna respect you for that. On the other hand, girls will absolutely ADORE you if you say nice things about them (not just physical, btw, mental and personality-wise too!) and they can tell you actually MEAN them. Tons of brownie points for those! But remember, don't go too deep with all this, because you may scare her off. See Fun above. :-)

Comfort: When you're girl is feeling down on herself or about life in general, you're going to have to figure out your own way to make her feel better. But, being cute and nice are usually a good place to start. Start off by listening to her, ask her to tell you what's bothering her and listen to what she has to say. Dont interupt unless it looks like she wants you too. Just let her know you're there for her. When she's done, pull her in close to you and let her cry if she needs to, and be sweet and caring toward her. Give her any bits of advice you may have on her situation, but don't lecture her. You're just trying to make her feel better. Finish off by telling her that you love her no matter what, and that you'll always be there for her. You better mean it, or it'll come off badly. If you're not going to mean it, just tell her she's wonderful in your eyes and nothing's going to change that. Then its a good idea to find some sort of chocolate or ice cream and fix it up for her, and then do something fun with her.

PMS: (Promise this is the last one). If your girl gets really snappy once a month, this is probably why. PMS involves pain and mood swings for the majority of girls, and its no wonder we're crabby. This is the category where its especially important to realize that every girl is different. Some of the tips below might not be helpful with your girl. The best way to find out is to be cautious and try one after the other until one makes her happy, but don't be too insistent. If at any time she tells you to back off or something similar, respect her wishes and gve her some space.
My first suggestion (because its something I would like) would be for you to just pull her in for a GENTLE hug (remember, if she has cramps shes not going to appreciate a squeeze.). This could be tricky though, because some girls don't like to be touched when they're PMSing. If she doesn't want to be hugged, just back off and take her hand, say something sweet. Some girls may appreciate a shoulder rub. In general, the best thing to do is to go along with whatever she wants, don't be combative, and just generally be nice to her. If she doesnt want you to be nice, just leave her alone. She'll be back to normal in a few days. Good luck with this one guys. The most important thing is not to be scared of her unless she wants you to be.

Ok, that's enough, I'm surprised you stuck with me this long. This kind of perseverance is something that some grls would admire. I hope you got something useful out of this, even thought theres tons more I could try to help you with. The most important thing of all (and thats why i saved it till last, so you had to stick it out to hear it) is to listen to her. She'll tell you what she wants, either through words, hints, or body language, but you just have to be paying attention and listening. The best of luck to you.

what girls need to understand about guys

Someone (a guy) posted this at TornCity's forum. So I thought about copy and paste it in my blog. This article/guide (whatever u want to refer it as) was basically taken from an internet source (though he didn't mention where). The italicized phrases/sentences are my own opinions regarding what are being mentioned.


So, here it goes;

WHAT GIRLS NEED TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT GUYS

1. Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!
how about those guys who chose those sluts?

2. "Hey, are you busy?" or "Are you doing something?" ~ two phrases guys open with to stop from stammering on the phone.
we girls will be too excited listening to your voice (wow! he calls me!!) to the extent that we don't mind what come out from your mouth.

3. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
not the girl they last talked to? xD girls also do the same ^^

4. Before they call, guys try to plan out a little about what they're going to say so there aren't awkward pauses, but once he's on the phone he forgets it all and makes it up as he goes.
we're too busy drowning in your voice.

5. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile when they’re attracted to them

6. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.
and girls will do exactly the same!

7. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are method.
strictly no talk about your previous love life or we'll end up sulking and say 'no, I'm fine' when we're so not.

8. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
u know that is not going to happen. But even if u're not the only guy we talk to, u'll be the only one in our heart.

9. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
and reassure us too! Never leave us wondering whether u're still in love with us or not.

10. Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.
eh?

11. Guys get jealous easily.
this explains no. 10. more easily that us girls can be?

12. Guys are more emotional than they'd like people to think.
then show some emotions. of course not all of the time but sometimes, guys need to let their guard down.

13. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
oohhhh.. I just love doing this! xD

14. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

15. Guys hate asking parents for money to buy girls presents. So they come up with ideas like saving their lunch money for a week. But it never works because guys are always hungry so they end up asking the parents for money anyway.

16. Girls are guys' weaknesses.
we are fully aware about that! lol

17. Guys are very open about themselves.

18. It's good to test a guy first before you trust him. But don't let him wait too long.
but we believe in 'Good things come to those who waits'

19. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

20. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
and we do expect the same from u guys

21. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
nah, I disagree with this one.

22. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.
prove then!

23. Guys will brag about anything.
we know. as in really really really know.

24. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

25. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
spare your brain cells, guys.

26. Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

27. Any guy could write out a rulebook or advice book for flirting, but no guy can write out a book about relationships.

28. Try to be as straightforward as possible.

29. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's
too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be mature and grown up.

30. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
we do the same thing too.

31. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.
why do I still doubt this one?

32. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
hello? the romance books give the guidelines because after all, guys act almost the same.

33. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

34. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
eh? hmmm..

35. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.

36. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."

37. Guys don't really have final decisions.
we know. lol. that's why it's hard for u to choose between 'this' her and 'that' her.

38. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.
when they do something like this, I will freak out. I really will. xD

39. If your best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.
that's it! I knew it!

40. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.
what if he is staring at me? and pretend to look away when I look back?
and what is that 'something'? more clues plz.

41. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

42. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
we hate weak guys!

43. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
everybody has problems. who doesn't?

44. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
where's your self-confidence?

45. Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

46. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.

47. Guys hate rejection, but they hate being led on even more.
rejection supposed to make them stronger. doesn't it? and when we reject, the hidden meaning is : try harder!!

48. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
we act like that on purpose. coz we want to attract u.

49. A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

50. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.
we are not surprised.

51. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn’t mean he represents ALL of us.
action speaks louder than words.

52. We don't like girls who are too skinny.
alrite *start putting every food I can find into my mouth*

53. We love it when girls talk about there ass.

54. Always make sure you know what kind of stuff your getting into before making out with a guy , like whether it's a one time deal or not .

55. Believe it or not shy guys are the most easiest to talk to. It may not seem right but trust me they will start opening up like books after you just ask them questions about their lives and unnoticeable tell them about yours.
I concur. theory tested. xD

56. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually.
we want u as well. we want u to go to the hell. Treat us with some respects is all
(along with some other requirements as well) we ever asked for

57. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.

58. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it, it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.

59. Guys will test the waters to see how far they can get with you. Even if he doesn't intend to it will happen. Know how far it is you want to let him go and he will respect that after you let him know a couple times.

60. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
I love this one the most xD

p/s: tell me what else do i need to know about guys.


Thursday, March 26, 2009

Student work

I have assignments to tend
light bulbs to mend
the pictures to crop
the shirts to shop
then the maggie to fry
the hair to dry
I got stomach to feed
The books to read
I'm always in stress
In choosing my dress
The paper to be cut
Although I'm not taking art
Then worry about the pick
And I start to freak


p/s : this is my parody version of Maya Angelou's Woman Work. Credits still go to the wonderful poet, Dr Maya Angelou

Hoola Hoop

a friend of mine tagged me to do this at facebook months ago but never got time to do it. And now, seeing that I'm a bit ermm less busy, I decide to use this as an entry for my blog. Anyway, here are twenty quick facts about me;
  • I love F1. so much. and I really mean it. I would rather watch F1 live telecast than going out for a date. lol
  • I'm allergic to seafood (but I keep eating them, who cares about the rashes anyway? They come and go), heat , and yes, hot guys! =D
  • I am a busy girl, super busy. Enough said.
  • I love photoshopping. This is like my everyday-must-do. Now talking about this makes me wonder why I quit product design course..hmm.. *ponder*
  • I don't believe in true love. I just don't. Yes, u meet someone, u fall in love, something happens and u break up but that doesn't mean that u'll be together again. Life is not a fairy tale or telenovela.
  • I am extremely addicted to Torn City.
  • I will take forever to love someone but I just need a second to make me don't like (was planning to use the word 'hate' here, but it wouldn't be appropriate lol) him.
  • I love reading novels.
  • I am egocentric. Really! lol
  • I am the Lucifer's Angel. I believe there's a devilish side of me and I'm fully aware that I can be an angel sometimes (not most of the time *grin*)
  • I think I'm in love with Finnish men. lol
  • I hate people who pretend they know something but in reality, their heads are full of air.
  • I eat a lot when I feel like eating a lot.
  • My metabolism rate is pretty high.

I can't count. 13 is my twenty. ;p

Thursday, February 12, 2009

How to Know that Love is Weird

You will know
When it sometimes makes you cry

You will know

When you start to believe you can fly

You will know

When you feel so high
You will know

Cause you want to give it a try

You will know

When it is so full of lies

You will know

When you become so shy

You will know
When everything is not as sweet as a pie

You will know

When you keep wondering why

You will know

When someday you'll fall from the sky

You will know
When you don't remember how to tie

You will know

When sometimes you'll have to bid good bye



I made this poem for my Creative Writing class.
It falls into the 'How To' poems.

Monday, February 9, 2009

My Last 10 Randomly Played Songs

Once again, the randomness in me kicks in. Being not-so-wide awake at 4 am, doing almost nothing but playing some ridiculous games at facebook and listening to the old-and-need-to-be-updated playlist of mine, I decided to do this. xD

1. Hero - Nas

2. Halfway Gone - Lifehouse

3. Barriers - David Archuleta

4. Everybody in Love - JLS

5. Dangerous and Sweet - Lenka

6. Demi Waktu - Ungu

7. If I Never See Your Face Again - Maroon 5 feat Rihanna

8. Like A Knife - Secondhand Serenade

9. Someone Wake Me Up - The Veronicas

10. Lift Me Up - Kate Voegele

Told ya. I definitely need to update my playlist. Hmmm..

Sunday, February 8, 2009

shopping or sleeping : resolved

Finally, it's the decision time, well, not really coz I made my mind about 4 hours ago. I decided to stay at home and finish couples of assignments since I have a lot to do. However, that is only applicable if I feel like doing them, which I extremely doubt. So, I guess I'll end up surfing the net and TC-ing and yea, photoshopping.

So far, it's been 4 hours passed since I made my crucial decision and I yet to do anything that is remarkable. The very typical me. So, I guess I'm off to find something to do. Photoshop maybe or finish my Mandarin homeworks. Or read for this Tuesday's test. Or prepare my presentation for the Sociolinguistic's class. Or finish my Creative Writing's fairy tale. Or write my journal. Or sleep. Oh, I love the last option the most =p

and ciao~

shopping or sleeping

I'm torn into two. Either going out and do some shopping or staying at home and sleeping. And the lucky choice would be my plan for tomorrow.

Alrite,
Option 1 - shopping:
  • This would be a GREAT gateway for me since I'm about to have a very hectic week.
  • And it would be extremely nice if I could get couple of new T-Shirts (haven't bought any since the new semester began).
  • And pizza's waiting for me.
  • And chances to meet new hot guys (OK, I was exaggerating, not meet, but stare at)
Option 2 - sleeping:
  • Sleeping is my hobby.
  • I need enough sleep to maintain my beauty (not that I am beautiful). But if I decide to go shopping, that would mean I won't be getting enough sleep as I will get up early.
  • I won't be sleeping all day long, so, during my awake hours, I could fill them up by logging to TC.

Note: Teem will be going out with her boy friend tomorrow, so that would leave me and Gee. There wouldn't be much fun without her. I mean, the more the merrier. So that means I will most probably spend my time at home. Ah, the perfect Sunday. Or isn't it? I don't know. Up until this time, I couldn't make up my mind yet. Will update later.

just a note

This is not first blog and I'm pretty sure it's not going to my last. I simply LOVE (yea, I purposely capitalized the word) deleting and creating blogs. Just one of my hobbies, I guess.

Anyway, hope this blog will last longer than my previous ones. I'm not going to promise myself anything but let's just hope I could get LOADS of ideas here and there to keep this blog updated.

Ideas are greatly appreciated.

And..
We'll see ~